R-E-S-P-E-C-T

by Cathy Maxwell

I don't usually enter into discussions about respect and romance writing. I firmly believe respect is not something others confer on you; it's something you take for yourself.

Besides, defining "respect" is a nebulous endeavor since it is so individual. To some writers, respect is having critics write rave reviews. To others, it's list ranking. Still, others crave Mom or Aunt Alice's approval. There are writers who feel we'd be better respected without clinch covers and there are writers who see the clinch as a trademark.

Obviously, what respect isn't is being universally read because Romance already claims that status and still we worry.

But a recent email on a loop touched me deeply and made me mull over this "respect" issue. Sandra Hill posted a fan letter she'd received. Hill is known for her entertaining, energetic Historicals with a handsome, virile man on the cover. When a reader picks up a Sandra Hill book, she knows she is going to have some fun.

The letter went: Dear Sandra: Thanks for the postcard of your upcoming book. I must tell you that I hooked my sister, Lynne, on reading romances and especially on your books. She always judged a book by its cover and loved your covers and postcards. She died on Jan. 12 of this year. At the wake I placed "The Bewitched Viking" in the casket in a position that when people would kneel down and look up .... guess who they saw! Many people giggled and if they really knew her did a belly laugh. Thanks for bringing to both of our lives some humor and the help it gave us as she battled her cancer. Hopefully she can read in heaven!! I'm laminating the "Truly, Madly Viking" to place at the cemetery. She would have loved it.

Thanks so much.

Diana Hill achieved what every fiction writer from Oates to Grisham, Shakespeare to Dumas hopes to attain--she captured the imagination of her reader. For the space of time it takes to turn the pages of a book, she held Reality at bay. God bless her. She did her job.

Such an achievement can't be measured on the pages of the New York Times Book Review. It's too personal and has nothing to do with literature through the ages and other snobbery. I'm not even certain those untold numbers of Aunt Alices and Moms would have positive comments.

But I do know that when I think back on the writers I respect, they've rarely written books that were the critics' choices. No, their books are the ones that touched my heart, my mind, and my imagination. They made me laugh, sometimes cry, and always involved me. Those writers made a difference in my world-even if it was only giving me a break from life through a few hours of enjoyable entertainment. There have been times when I have needed to escape.

If I were to talk to these writers, I would order them to not give a care what critics, peers, or relatives have to say about their work because I deem it valuable. Their books mean something to me. I will never forget them.

And over time, I think this form of respect, the respect we must earn reader-by-reader, slowly, patiently, and solely for telling the tale well, is the only respect that matters. Cathy Maxwell's next book is THE MARRIAGE CONTRACT, a Feb. 2001 release from Avon Books. She will also have a short story in the NAL anthology IN PRAISE OF YOUNGER MEN, Jan. 2001. She is currently at work on a new book for Avon Books tentatively titled THE SPENDER STUD.

 

Cathy Maxwell's next book is THE MARRIAGE CONTRACT, a February 2001 release from Avon Books. She will also have a short story in the NAL anthology IN PRAISE OF YOUNGER MEN, January 2001. She is surrently at work on a new book for Avon Books tentatively titled THE SPENDER STUD.